{"id":89335,"date":"2021-05-18T12:37:44","date_gmt":"2021-05-18T12:37:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/barnmedibd.dk\/?p=89335"},"modified":"2022-09-30T08:08:51","modified_gmt":"2022-09-30T08:08:51","slug":"soeskende","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barnmedibd.dk\/index.php\/2021\/05\/18\/soeskende\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f8skende"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; back_color=&#8221;color-xsdn&#8221; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;2&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; row_height_use_pixel=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column column_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; font_family=&#8221;font-134980&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;0&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; zoom_width=&#8221;0&#8243; zoom_height=&#8221;0&#8243; column_width_pixel=&#8221;800&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/4&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;0&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_custom_heading text_color=&#8221;color-prif&#8221; heading_semantic=&#8221;h5&#8243; text_size=&#8221;h5&#8243;]S\u00d8SKENDE &#8211; det raske barns udfordringer[\/vc_custom_heading][vc_custom_heading text_color=&#8221;accent&#8221; heading_semantic=&#8221;h1&#8243; text_font=&#8221;font-175345&#8243; text_size=&#8221;h1&#8243; text_weight=&#8221;600&#8243;]Kronisk sygdom p\u00e5virker alle i familien \u2013 ogs\u00e5 de raske s\u00f8skende.[\/vc_custom_heading][vc_column_text text_lead=&#8221;yes&#8221; uncode_shortcode_id=&#8221;115429&#8243;]Det er naturligt at for\u00e6ldres energi, og ressourcer koncentrerer sig om at h\u00e5ndtere de udfordringer, som det syge barn m\u00f8der. Det er ogs\u00e5 naturligt, at de raske s\u00f8skende derfor kan komme til at f\u00f8le sig oversete og udenfor.<br \/>\nF\u00e6nomenet er s\u00e5 almindeligt, at det har f\u00e5et et navn: <strong><em>Skyggeb\u00f8rn<\/em>. <\/strong>Dvs. b\u00f8rn som f\u00f8ler, at de vokser op i skyggen af en syg s\u00f8skende.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Det kan v\u00e6re sv\u00e6rt at v\u00e6re det raske skyggebarn.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Typiske reaktioner p\u00e5 familiens \u00e6ndrede omst\u00e6ndigheder:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Barnet tilsides\u00e6tter egne behov for ikke at belaste for\u00e6ldrene yderligere<\/li>\n<li>Vrede\/jalousi ifht. for\u00e6ldreopm\u00e6rksomhed<\/li>\n<li>Skyld over at v\u00e6re rask \u2013 og lettelsen over det<\/li>\n<li>Skam over at blive irriteret p\u00e5 den syge s\u00f8skende<\/li>\n<li>Irritation over de begr\u00e6nsninger, som sygdommen giver familien (f.eks kost, feriem\u00e5l, uforudsigelighed)<\/li>\n<li>Vrede over evt. forskelsbehandling ifht. pligter (hvorfor er det altid mig, der skal\u2026.)<\/li>\n<li>Tager stort ansvar p\u00e5 sig<\/li>\n<li>Tr\u00e6kker sig<\/li>\n<li>Bliver udadreagerende<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Skyggen kan g\u00f8res mindre<br \/>\n<\/strong>Sm\u00e5 \u2013 men vigtige \u2013 justeringer kan g\u00f8re en stor forskel.<br \/>\nDet kan hj\u00e6lpe at:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Anerkende barnets oplevelser \u2013 at tingene er lidt sk\u00f8re for tiden, men at det hele forh\u00e5bentlig bliver, som det plejer at v\u00e6re, igen<\/li>\n<li>Sige tingene som de er: Jeg elsker dig lige s\u00e5 h\u00f8jt som X, men lige nu er der brug for, at jeg giver ham\/hende ekstra hj\u00e6lp<\/li>\n<li>Sp\u00f8rge ind til barnets dag, oplevelser og bekymringer. Ti minutters fuld opm\u00e6rksomhed kan g\u00f8re hele forskellen for f\u00f8lelsen af at f\u00f8le sig vigtig og elsket<\/li>\n<li>Sige ja til den hj\u00e6lp, som andre tilbyder. 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